Fear of failure stops many people in their tracks. I once had an angel investor approach me after a workshop. He said that he and his friends had a $30 million fund. They wanted to start a bunch of companies, and they needed smart people to help. My first reaction was, “I don’t want to take anyone else’s money and fail.” That’s what I kept thinking the whole time he was talking.
Later that night, we went out to dinner to discuss the subject further – and he said something that made me rethink everything.
“Here’s what I think would be absolutely glaring success. We start 10 companies. Eight of them fail, one breaks even, and one makes me some money. If even one of them succeeds, that is unbelievable success.”
Think about that for a moment. When I was told that I was allowed to fail, my perspective changed. I think I’ve got a pretty good chance of being successful, especially if I’m allowed to screw up 85% of the time.
After that conversation, I said, “Wow. OK, let’s talk some more, now I am interested.”
You can give yourself good odds, too, by just being willing to try. Just do something for the sake of your own curiosity and don’t worry about the end result. Failure and success is all perception anyway.
If you ever want to experience that eureka moment, if you ever want to taste great success, you have to be willing to try – and be willing to fail, so get off you keister and do something about it.




